http://www.soundoflife.net/easter-quotes/ Love Quotes, Life quotes and Sayings Tue, 29 Nov 2011 11:00:42 -0500 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.2 hourly 1 http://www.soundoflife.net/easter-quotes/comment-page-1/#comment-6711 conflict resolution courses Wed, 27 Jul 2011 02:54:23 +0000 http://www.soundoflife.net/?p=406#comment-6711 So let's look at this statement a bit further, "agree with all those who oppose you and then show them another way." Quite simply what is meant by that is this, it's not just about seeing it from their point of view, a lot of people when they use a technique like that they'll say something like, "Hmm, yeah I really see how you see it that way" or "I really feel how you could come from that point of view" and they're saying it as if there's some therapist or councilor trying to put words to it. However it's not really heartfelt, they just think that's what you should do in conflict, tell people "Yes I really see it" or "I hear you" or "I feel you." You have to actually have your heart behind that in a genuine way if you're at all to be successful in what I'm talking about. So when I say "agree with all those who oppose you and then show them another way" I'm actually saying that in every single conflict there will be a part of you that does in fact agree with them completely. As if, not only do you see it from their perspective it is your perspective from that part. So what I'm in fact asking you to do is to connect to the part of you that actually is totally in resonance with that person. So let’s look at this statement a bit further, “agree with all those who oppose you and then show them another way.” Quite simply what is meant by that is this, it’s not just about seeing it from their point of view, a lot of people when they use a technique like that they’ll say something like, “Hmm, yeah I really see how you see it that way” or “I really feel how you could come from that point of view” and they’re saying it as if there’s some therapist or councilor trying to put words to it. However it’s not really heartfelt, they just think that’s what you should do in conflict, tell people “Yes I really see it” or “I hear you” or “I feel you.” You have to actually have your heart behind that in a genuine way if you’re at all to be successful in what I’m talking about. So when I say “agree with all those who oppose you and then show them another way” I’m actually saying that in every single conflict there will be a part of you that does in fact agree with them completely. As if, not only do you see it from their perspective it is your perspective from that part. So what I’m in fact asking you to do is to connect to the part of you that actually is totally in resonance with that person.

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