Cheating Quotes
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Loading ...Here are some cheating quotes about lover cheating and also some wisdom quotes on lying and cheating.
“It is double pleasure to deceive the deceiver.”
~Niccolo Machiavelli
“Anything worth having is a thing worth cheating for.”
~ W. C. Fields
“Doubtless the pleasure is as great Of being cheated as to cheat.”
~Samuel Butler
And a wisdom saying about lying, or how not to get caught lying:
“If the fish had not opened its mouth, it would never have been caught”
And a funny quote in cheating by Woody Allen:
“When I was in school, I cheated on my metaphysics exam: I looked into the soul of the boy sitting next to me.”
“It is better to suffer wrong than to do it, and happier to be sometimes cheated than not to trust.”
~Samuel Johnson
I would prefer even to fail with honor than to win by cheating
~ Sophocles
“When I?€™m not near the girl I love, I love the girl I?€™m near.”
~ E.Y Harburg
“We have to distrust each other. It is our only defense against betrayal.”
~Tennessee Williams
The first and worst of all frauds is to cheat one’s self. All sin is easy after that.
~Pearl Bailey
All good is hard. All evil is easy. Dying, losing, cheating, and mediocrity is easy. Stay away from easy.
~ Scott Alexander
“Drawing is the honesty of the art. There is no possibility of cheating. It is either good or bad.”
~ Salvador Dali
“The history of persecution is a history of endeavors to cheat nature, to make water run up hill, to twist a rope of sand.”
~Ralph Waldo Emerson
“Cheating was easy, but impossible to go back to.?€
~Dean Osborne
Three things are men most likely to be cheated in, a horse, a wig, and a wife
~Benjamin Franklin
?€œSee what it is to play unfair!
Where cheating is, there’s mischief there.
~ William Blake
“It is as impossible for a man to be cheated by anyone but himself, as for a thing to be, and not to be, at the same time.”
~Ralph Waldo Emerson
Honesty is the best policy.
~ Don Quixote.
“A woman’s desire for revenge outlasts all her other emotions?€
~ Cyril Connolly
He that cheats another is a knave; but he that cheats himself is a fool.
~Karl G. Maeser
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wow really you should stand up be the better parson and walk away from him not cheat back!!!
Sadly I was played it _____. He was my first kiss and I realy cared for turns out he didn’t care about me at all:( he upset me deeply but I didn’t let it show and then he was he one hat was upset about it and i just dnt talk to me leave me alone I got my wish he doesn’t talk to me anymore at all and I’m extremly happy about that:)
I’m in grade 6 when a grade 8 asked me out….i said yes I LOVED HIM….but one day my best friend told me about her and his conversation!….he said tht he would do anything to have her, he wouldn’t let anything happen to her, and he also said he would love her forever…..she luckly said no!….i got mad…..I talked to him and told him “if all you wanted to do was break my heart then congratdulations you did!….it’s over!” the worst thing waS he tried to say he didn’t do anything wrong !!!…..i have another guy who sAid he would give up his life for me….I love him and now I have him! <3…..things work out in the eND!
p.s. THE GRADE 8 guy i was dating never told me anything like he told my BEST FRIEND!
I was recently cheated on, after 3 years. He said he couldn’t marry knowing we weren’t on level ground, since I’d been with another guy before we met.Its best to forgive, but you can never forget, it moulds you, it teaches you to be cautious. I thank him everyday for opening my eyes, I sure am careful and a bit “stalkerish” when it comes to him going places I don’t know about.
i dated this guy one time and like i reallii reallii loved him we dated for like ages anyway we didnt go to te same skool and i got told by one of my frends tht went to his skool tht he was cheating on me wif this chick there it broke my heart and like i told him everything and he told me everything well at least i thort he did he told me that he had neva had sex b4 and he decides to tell me today that he loves me and he has had sex with 3 other girls i was like omfg doooggg so i told him off and have a new boy frend now which makes him jelous he reacons ….. pfft well he can go get stuffed grrrrr hes so hipocritical…… and thats my story hahahahahahahahah
haha, damn girl me and you bothh ? I HATE PLAYERS. lmao. well he is a douche bag just letting you know that (: you are prolly a really pretty andd that guy you have now is luckky, (:
nwaaaa thanks heaps
tateumm thats sweet of you 
i hate players aswell its ticks me off it makes u feel like ur not good enuf for anyone its just soooo GRRRR hahaha ohh quick question u make or female hehehe sorrrryyyy xxx
tht last message was ment to say male**** not make hahah
its funny coz every one says hes lucky to have me yer ur right he WAS to have me but i thort how lucky i was to have him it seems to me now how UNlucky i was tomhave him i always choose the wrong guys to fall in love with he tells me now he has feelings for his ex loves her more than he loves me well fuk off then stop tellling m and date her if its like that geeeee i gotto stay away from the boys for a bit i think…… i always pik out the wrong ones
is there even a right guy out there for me 
Yehh, I dated this Guy who I assumed was the right one for me! Little did I know he was talkin to diff girls behind my back, going places with them. & cheated on my with 4 diff girls, Like WhooTF Does that? & yet I still kept him. Until he completely broke my heart & left me for this skankkk. @ school who already got a bad repp., but Thank God, I found Love a whole Year later<3 & I've never been Happpier<3
ohh woww jess , i’m sorry girl ! well, he was not worth it at all , i bet you are beautiful & have an amazing boyfriend now that is a billion times better than himm.[: && if you don’t then, just wait .. & your time will come , don’t rush time .. because when you finally have someone perfect .. time will speed up again, & it will be lost .. live for the moment, not the past or the future, & know that everytinh happens for a reason. WORD.[:
Married for 19 years and cheated on … ugh! He said he will always love me and that I was the ‘perfect’ wife–but our marriage is over. It’s been a year now and starting over still stinks sometimes, but much nicer than living in a lie. God’s peace really does pass all understanding…and I’m so glad it does.
So I datedd this quyy andd likee I reallyy likess himm andd he saidd he wassss supper superr in love withh mee. Later on I founded out he hadd anotherr qirl friend! Haaa, andd so then I forqavee himm andddd movedd on like 2 months later. I’m on hummm myspaceee hahaa andd well im lookinqq at his statues andd craapp. Andd well the point is that! He askedd the qirl out onee day beforeee askinnqq mee soo he asked her out and then he askedd mee out the next dayy. Andd her brokee up with her likeee 2 weeks later. I was _____ possess andd i madee himm cryy and he acctuallyy beggedd mee not to breakk up withh himm but I didntt qivee a _____. He askeedd both of us out andd who ever he didn’t likee he wass qonna dumpp! Is that _____up or what! ___ quyss. _____themm.
yesterday i found out that my boyfriend(now my ex) cheated on me. he hooked up wit a girl last weekend and then i found out he was dating someone else the same time as me. i told me were over n i never wante 2 speak 2 him ever again
I found out today my boyfriend was cheating on me the whole time. Turns out,like right after we got together..he asked out another girl,and they’ve been dating too. To top that off,I also found out..last week he messed around with another girl,and he’s been currently trying to get with his OTHER girlfriend’s little sister. It disgusts me. And now he’s been trying to talk to me all day telling me he never cheated on me. The other girls were “lying”. But I broke up with him,best decision I think I’ve ever made.
Okay so I have this person I have been with for 10+ years I love them so much! They started cheating on me and saying that I was to controlling?! wtf man seriously you’re cheating on me and suddenly I’m to controlling in the relationship xD Yes I’m a lesbian … get over it! So then I gave her another chance… I seen her cyber sexing a 16 year old >:P 16!? Get real he even told her and I talked to the kid… He is in the boyscouts…I was like omg! I made her promise for her honor AND sanctity to NEVER cyber a kid again! I caught her cybering him again… I was like that sick fv:O I scratched her all up! I’m still deciding if Imma press charges and KARMA will always…ALWAYS
get you threefold! and if she is out here reading this then GOOD you need to stop and get help I love you and care about you but I just can do it anymore have a nice life doll…Hope you don’t get to f’ed up out there >:{ <3
hey Gina, i’m so sorry that happend to you, some guys are really horrible, and you are definately better off without him, onedaty youll find you prince in shinning armour andall the pain youve been through, wont matter.
i went through something similar but it was worst. i was pregnant n he went out with so many other “bitch” during my pregnancy. i say bitch because they all knew i was pregnant wit his child n that we were still together yet they didn’t care
mannn. i one time fell in love with this girl named lizzete,
we lasted longggg.
like 9 or 10 months.
till she broke up with me.but i also found out she had cheated on me like 3 times.like big time,she tells me she loves me,now she goes out with some other dude but like she cheated on him with me and some more people.ALOT of time like 12 times with me,probly more.
and idk about the others.well yea she was telling me she loved me and i fell for her tricks again.and i fell in love with her again.
but she still going out with the guy.and she saying she love me too.
but noww we dont talk at all.ima message her today.
any adviceee?revenge ideas?
adviceee:
anyone who has ever cheated on anyone does it because
of insecurity. until that person takes time to themselfs
to figure out what makes them act out like this, an
what makes them feel the need to cheat, they are not
worth your time. the fact that this girl has done this
a few different times indicates that she’s still broken.
you can’t play on broken strings bud.
my “boyfriend” of eight months texted me the night of his birthday “i love you (ex- girlfriends name).. just close your eyes and think about us baby”.. I was on the phone with him when he sent this… i always had my eye opened but i did not see this coming. this quote helps me though and she give some peace to you readers as well “It is better to suffer wrong than to do it, and happier to be sometimes cheated than not to trust.”
My husband of 15 years is cheating on me. He is trying to decide if he wants me or her after 7 weeks i am getting abit over it all. If it wasnt for my 3 kids i would have booted him out already. our marriage wasnt bad we didnt fight we got along well but some bitch comes along and pays him all this attention, he thinks hes the man and i go away to camp with one of my kids and he brings her into my house my bed and gets it on. I have learnt alot of things in this time and realise i can do a hell of a lot better and it will not make alot of difference if he goes. So at least I know i can do better and he will be the one that suffers in the end. looking forward to payback though
Word of advice. This goes to both parties. Be smart when choosing a partner. Know the other persons history. The past will mold the person he or she is today. But when you’re in a bad situation, only person to blame is yourself since you allow it to happen. IT was your choice to choose your partner to begin with. 3 out of 4 girls I went out cheated on me, so after that my perception has changed. Im not going to blame anyone else but myself that happened. I should be more cautious next time, as well as you.
my boyfriend goes to the same school as one of my friends but he doesen’t know that so he is dating another girl in his class so i figured out i dont know how t tel him i figured out cuz it could be all a lie then he might be mad that i thought he was cheating on me wht do i do
Tell him, and break up with him, he obviously doesnt want to commit to one person, so he isnt worth your time.
being cheated on is by far the worst thing that could possibly happen to anybody.
when i was in 8th grade i met the guy of my dreams. we eventually started dating and everything was as perfect as can be. he was perfect . . or so i thought. one day i get a call from this female claiming she was with MY boyfriend. well at first i didnt want to believe it b/c everybody was against our relationship to begin with. i obviously asked him about it and he denied it and i believed him. we were fine after that, as if nothing happened. then i talk to an old friend that goes to his school and it turns out by ‘coincidence’ that she had a boyfriend with my boyfriend’s exact name. now im no stupid chick so i caught on pretty quick, all the pieces in the puzzle came together. she had gone out wit him 2 months prior to her telling me. so she told me i should break up wit him and i mean why wouldnt i listen to my ‘good’ friend? well turns out as soon as i break up wit him SHE gets wit him! funny thing is he kept calling me, trying to get back wit me when he was wit her but i wasnt having it anymore. he was the love of my life and to this day he still is. i dont think i will ever stop hurting . . .
@Babycakes
I know EXACTLY how yuh feel . But don’t worry about it . Yuh will get over it . TRUST ME . There was this one guy i met . We were best friends . Things turned into more && i fell in love with him . We started dating && the same thing happened . We stopped talking && i didn’t think i would ever stop hurting either . It did though . I’m perfectly fine now . All yuh need are some GOOD friends and fun to help yuh through it . Yuh will forget all about it . Just remember ;; the cheater will get karma . No matter what , Karma’s a bitch . && he will eventually find that out .
Well have one I was a stay home mom and wife for 15 years was always there for my family gave up everything. I knew someting was wrong but was never sure but on Oct.11,2005 I called my husband at the time to tell him that ny favorite astor’s player had died when the phone rang in the bathroom and of course went to get it and thought why would he leave it in the bathroom? so i went through it and found text messages and phone numbers that shocked me….they belonged to my sister n law my brothers wife. I couldn’t believe that she would do something like that to me and to my kids and i had just delivered my fourth one and she was there for all four was the Godmother to two of them. I have tried to move on and i have to a certain point i have gotten over the cheating and we are done part but the whole idea of it being her still gets to me and now i found out they got maried this past July. Now my kids have to call her step mom and that just doesn’t sit well with me. this person was: My friend,my sister,my sister in law the one i told evertying too. People say i’ll get over it one day. I ask myself when??? cause just when i think the wound is healing i see her trying to be a mom to my kids and its like ripping a scab off all over again.
I’ve been with the same guy since I was 12 and I’m 18 now , we were each others first everything . & I never once have even thought about cheating on him. Recently he dropped me off at my house to get ready and said he would be back and i didnt hear from him til 2 in the morning when he came and got me then the next day he left me at his house and went with his friend i never thought anything of it because I trusted him where we have been together so long . I can’t have sex right now because of a medical condition and no not an sti . so the tonight i found out that when he said he was out with his friends and i was waiting at his house on bed rest , he was out cheating on me. We were engaged, and were suppose to get married next year . I thought that we were going to have a good future together. men are all dogs.
recently, my bf cheated on me, i found out when the girl contacted me..we both didnt know..such a jerk. the worst, he denies everything, saying all those mails/photos i got are fake..and he only care for me..and the other girl is dangerous and wanna break us up…
i hate liars the most..
if u cheat, assume your act!!
I’m in 7th grade, now some people say your just 13 you don’t know what love is. But when you date someone for 4 months and you think your in-love, and he is your world, he is the first thing you can call YOURS, it is love. Well, I was dating a guy named Trent he made me absolutely happy but, we fought a lot. I just let it roll off my back. Then he started acting really shady not answering me when i called him, what hurt me was he stopped saying ” I love you” :’(. I was talking to my friend at my first choir concert. This was supposed to be one of the most amazing moments of my life, but it went from amazing to suicidal. She said when she was walking to the concert she saw Trent kissing my (Ex)- best friend, that struck me like lightening. I didn’t want to cry right there in-front of everyone, but once those tears came they didn’t stop. I end up running out of the auditorium crying my eyes out. He was waiting outside for the concert to start and, I saw him…. he ran to see what was wrong and i just looked onto his beautiful blue eyes and said…. why don’t you ask Hannah. After those words came out he just looked at me astonished that i knew, He started to apologize, but before he could finish i said, ” I really hope she is worth it because it is over and since I’m not your everything I don’t want to be anything to you.” I went back into the auditorium and sang. It has been about a month, now i have a new man and he is so sweet we haven’t fought once I hope it is different.
Im sorry to hearr (N), i know how it feel’s and it hurts! im happy for you with your new man, i hope you last (Y), Your (Ex) isnt worth it, if he is just going to go behind your back, but i suppose that atleast it wasnt worst than that, (not saying it doesnt hurt because it does)just be lucky that it was only a kiss, others have been hit worst but just keep your chin up and be happy, you have your new man now so you should be happy
x
Ok so I’ve been dating my bf for a little over a year when one night he asks me to marry him. Not a proposal. Just almost like he was having a conversation. Well, the next week he broke up w me. After that we were always having these stupid little arguments. Seriously though I don’t argue back so they were just like him getting upset and me just walking away or not saying anything. Well after a couple weeks I got tire of it and looked at his phone which I totally shouldn’t have done. Well there was pictures of his ex on it. And they had talked about the pics and the videos. They had talked about meeting at his workplace which is an hour awy from where we live. I talked to him about it and he said the pics were supposed to be of her kids and he just got caught up in th moment. He said the videos were still on there from when they had dated. He had forgotten about them supposedly. And that them meeting was so that he could see the kids. So what do I do?
@Jade.
Im a woman, and i believe i have a man that ive been with for about 4 years and it seems every time something comes up that i find in his phone.. i usually have a gut feeling that hes messing up.. and so i calm down and later bring it up… of course he denies it. i “never know what im talking about” and some things are “inside jokes”…. i dont believe that. men lie because they’re scared. they still want you… but they also wanna do what they wanna do. no woman is going to send pictures and videos, unless they feel comfortable in doing so…we dont wanna look stupid. lol. so i would honestly go with ur heart. a womans intuition is never wrong.
I was with my ex for 12yrs, i met him when i was 18 yrs old i was a single teen mom. we had a child within the 11 yrs being together. my son was not even 2 yrs old yet he decided to have a fling for the summer leaving me and my children alone. last summer was a nice summer too. make a long story short. his summer fling contacted me and let me know who she was after he decided he wanted to end the fling. took him back, he did not last more than 2 weeks. he called me on a monday and told me he was coming home and he never made it. he decided to be with the fling leaving me and my children. he basically chose her over us. i believe in the Lord and they will reap what the sew. i tell you young ladies when God send you the signs. please do not ignore them. i don’t want anyone to go through what i went throuhg. the betrayel, the abandonment and rejection. now he is with the girl which in my eyes she is my enemey. i don’t even for her to go through what i went through. so what i do is pray for her and him. in the bible it says to love and pray for your enemey and so that is what i do. it has been over a month and i am doing well. i realize it was a blessing that we are not together. he was draining me which made me unable to be a good parent. now i am doing well and working on me. god will send me that right man.
Ya, I don’t know. My intuition says he cheated and my mind says to leave him, but my heart wants to stay. Since I confronted him about that, my walls are up. I’m protecting myself, but we haven’t fought or argued or anything since then. The first time we ever argued was the week he broke up with me.. I watched him erase her number, the pictures, the videos. Everything. I just can’t move on because I have a photgraphic memory. I remember word for word what was said. I remember seeing the pictures even tho I tried not to look. I love him. He’s not one of those super romantic guys that I always dreamt about. In fact he is almost completely opposite but I love him. I’ve thought about taking a break for a whil but everytime I bring it up he cries and I hate seeing him cry. I hate hurting him… I can’t do that to him, but in all reality what is best for me?
i dont knw..whether i should trust my guy o no!! itz a long distance relationship!! but he cums to meet me often! do i trust him o not?? what if he betrays me?? i don wanna hurt myself..wanna stay happy!! but i do love him alot!!
@ neha…
one of the most important parts of a relationship is trust. especially if you guys are trying to make it work long distance. i dated this guy for 3 months before he had to leave to go to college 300 miles away. it _____ because we were so much in love. but we swore that we would make things work. we were together 9 months. after all was said and done, i found out that he cheated on me… more than once and with different girls. his explanation? it had nothing to do with me… he was just being selfish. like a fool i wanted to know the details… i figured it would make getting over it easier. when he was finally home for winter break we hung out. but there was one day he wanted to and i just couldn’t. but he didn’t seem upset. we spoke on the phone for like an hour, about us and our future together, and the last thing he told me was that he was going to sleep and that he loved me. come to find out as soon as he hung up the phone he went and hooked up with some other girl.
my philosophy now is simple. TRUST WITH ALL OF YOUR HEART, but you need to have a reason not to trust someone. if things are good with you guys and feel good about it and you love each other then go with those emotions. you don’t want to sabotage a good thing. do what will make you happy. BUT the minute you feel like something isn’t right, do something about it… your instincts are usually dead on when it comes to those things. remember… he needs to give you a reason NOT to trust him. if not, then things are good.
hope this helped a little wishing you and your guy the best!
-MJ
I was with this guy from work. This was my first job and I was stoked because I felt like I was growing up. Well there was this gut I liked, he was 22, and I’m only 16, so that was a hige leap. Well when I started working there in July, he would only look at me. Then around August he actually started talking to me, and then he started flirting with me and asking my best friend, who also worked there, where I was and saying he missed me and what not. Well him and his GF had broken up so he gave me his number. I didn’t really think much of it at the time. So we started txting and then he told me best friend he liked me. That same night him, my best friend, a few crew members, my manager and I went to go hang at my managers house. Well the 22 year old and I started hanging making out. The next day we got together. I would call him and he would pick up but we would only talk for 5mins. and he would say he’d call me back. He would, but hours later. And we would txt but he would reply every other hour. I would plan out how we could see eachother cause well, he’s 6 years older then me, and once I got it all planned he would bail. So I told him he was too old anyways and we broke up. I found out just tonight that he was talking to 4 other girls, while with me, infact, before we even got together, and now one of them is pregnet. It makes me wonder that maybe that’s all he wanted in the first place. And now I’m quiting my job because I can’t work with him and the other three girls that he was doing…__________
Im in love with a girl. Im a senior in highschool and she’s a sophmore. We met on valentines day when i was junior and i’ve loved her ever since. Well recently she got grounded because she was “with” me and its been 3 months since then. Well this weekend she got off ground and found out i went out with some girl for 3 DAYS!?!?!? She’s not talking to me or anything. We still love each other and i want to be with HER SOOOO BAD!!! We weren’t in a relationship when she was grounded. I would never cheat in a relationship- especially when its with someone i love. I’m not that kind of guy. She’s hurt, and i’m hurt to see her hurt and i feel guilty about everything. I said i was sorry. We still love each other but i’m just afraid of completely losing her. Which is what its feeling like…
i need a woman’s perspective on my situation and advice would be GREATLY APPRECIATED!! I love wisdom:) and i love her.
I have been dating a lady for 5 years. We were in the same university when we started, then I finished and moved on to another university to do a PhD. She also moved to another university to do her postgraduate. We were in different countries and different continents. After a year we had not much problem. Then she went back to our former school to start masters and the problems started. She started cutting my phone calls, and sometimes ignored them claiming she did not take her fone when she was going out.Later, I found out she was visiting a guy. I asked her she denied. I was troubled.But she tried to convince me she would never cheat on me.She promised that because of my suspicion, she would not have anything to do with the guy again, and I believed. But months later, I stumbled into some pictures posted by her friends on facebook showing her resting on the guy’s chest.I asked her she denied and told me it was an event they both attended together.Her conclusion was now that those who posted the pictures only wanted us to break so that they can date me. But I am not convinced, I believed she had been cheating on me. Our marriage is next month, now,I am not sure I want to marry such hypocrite, I am confused.
i was cheated on by my boyfriend well he had ___ with my best friend and wen he ask me if i would take him but it took every thing i had not to take him back cause we had been together 5 moths and i was so upset and i was very mad at him!
Girl I know how u feel my boyfriend did the same thing but I think mine was a little worst my bf cheated also on a _____ that me and her already fought plus she was my sister in law with my brother yup that’s right my bf had a three some with my brother and his wife….now u talk bout how low that one is…
Well i’ve known my ex for a year, and when we dated, he would always cheat…i would always take him back..but this time i’ve had it. he called me a bitch because i accused him of cheating (he was) so i said you know what..im not stupid..so i logged onto his facebook account, took screenshots of the messages he sent to the girl..and i posted them on my account for everyone to see. his mom, his family, whoever..and i showed them the message he sent me of calling me a bitch…his family hates him..not because of me, because of how he treated me, and how he let me go
I am in a relationship with my boyfriend for ten years. We live together. He works and goes to school at night. We’ve been arguing here and there because I recently found out that he was caught with another girl at a near by park. I asked him and he denied it but was quiet at first. I wanted to believe him but I can’t and I couldn’t believe him. I don’t have proof. The only proof I have is pictures that were taken when he was on site. I want to be able to believe him but I can’t believe in him. I was in his car the other day and when I opened the door on the back side I seen this blue polo shirt on the floor. He saw me look at it and told me to tell him what I was going to say because he knows he’s going to hear it from me again. I didn’t say anything. The next day him and I went to the store and the shirt was not on the floor again. So I asked him and he said he put it inside. Which was a lie. That just tells me that she does exist and he is accepting gifts from her. Eventhough he tells me that she doesn’t exist and that there is nothing to worry about. I do worry because him and I don’t have sex as much like before and he’s always hiding stuff in the trunk of his car. I ask him about it and he says its nothing. I have a feeling he does see her during the day and maybe after school. I have gut feelings and also something always tells me he is hiding something from me. I really don’t know what to do anymore. Should I believe him? He keeps his cell phone really close to him and has his cell phone on silent mode.. What should I believe?
I’ve been with my boyfriend since March 30, 2009. He treated me like his everything & I treated him like crap. He never gave up on me, but he was getting tired of my attitude. I would pick little fights about stupid things. I assumed he was cheating, but he never was cause hes not that type of person. Well i saw him on Sep. 6 everything was fine. We held hands kissed laught we did everything normal couples do. Then a month later hes acting like a butt. I didnt do anything wrong. He just changed i guess he got tired of my attitude. Cause i was acting weird when i saw him a month later, that prolly bothered him and made him act weird. Well now its been a month since i talked to him. Hes 18 im 15 i know people say hes to old for you, but i dont think he is. Well anyways my cousins husbans brother went to fast eddies with my boyfriend & this other girl, but the other girl is 21, my boyfriends sister is 21 so im guessing it was her then my dad saw him at the store with another girl. They was NOT holding hands or anything, he hangs out with his family alot cause before we was together a year he was never around his family & they hated me for that. So now he spends all his time with them. But he changed so much cause the way i treated him, but i changed for him. I havnt talked to him in a month but i still have faith that i can get things on the right track. my head plays with me so much. I wunna write him a letter & tell him that i changed & how i changed & why i changed. I love him more than anything in this worlD. I lost family cause i wanted to be with hi, anyways any advice to get things back together with him & me. & how do i get him to see that i changed..? Itll help alot [:
i have a questionn .. what do you do if your boyfriend that you have had for almost 6 months has been cheating on you, but we have talked about it and i have forgave him over and over when its only hurting myself . he recently is continuing to cheat on me with my BESTFRIEND and i dont have a cue as to what i should do, i really really like him and for some odd reason i think he feels the same. i just dont think he knows how to treat ONE girl right without haveing other girls on the side . HELP mee ?!
I am being cheated on by my boyfriend. We were together for almost three years. He did it with a girl he works with. I want to forgive him but he refuses to admit it. I sort of knew when he became abusive or when he came home smelling horrible and when he flung my hands away when I touched him, but some part of me needed confirmation. When I got it I regretted it. He’s done so much for me and if I leave him I’ll be homeless. I just cant shake the feeling. I really need advice on what I should do please.
Okay, I have a 1 year old little boy with a guy who left me when I was pregnant to be with other girls. I love this guy with all my heart. Well he has this gf he has been with for a year or so and me and him have had ___ i dont feel bad about it but idk what it means cuz he is still with her. She doesnt know. He says he loves her but then every weekend he doing this with me am I a bad person?
NO U R NOT A BAD PERSON BUT, APPERANTLY IF HE KEEPS GOING BACK TO HER THEN HE DONT REALLY LOVE YOU OR HER.
yeah that is true..and the sad part is i might be pregnant by him again:(
Never fall in love with a flirt… I feel inlove with my ex because he was so good with words. He would say things that melts your inside and give you that tingling feeling… I guess eveyone loves that feeling. We’ve been together for 7 years, went to college together, had great jobs and went out as a couple all the time. He was the kind of guy that makes you feel loved. He’ll grab me from behind out of no where and just kiss my neck softly… things like that. Then I opened my eyes and realized he did that to everyone. Girls he called “FRIENDS”, girls he meets at the club, basically anything that moved! OMG, that hurted so much… that tingling feeling turned into a ripping feeling, like my whole world was crashing. I’ve been cheated on the enitre time, what a f* fake life I lived!
Well I was dating this guy for 1 month and 18 day and Lil did I know
That he was going to walmart every Friday… With Alyssa
I went through his phone one day when we went skating and I saw
Were they were talking and he said I can’t wate to see u tomarrow
And she was like me too….then I fount out they held hands… Wow…
I fount all this out 2 days after we broke up… Dang I can’t bleave this
Is happing to me.. I cryed all day and all night… All I can saw is DID HE
HAVE TO GO THAT LOW JUST TO GET RID OF MEEE!!
I dated this guy for almost 2 months(;
and I really liked him, bad thing was he was in the 6th and
I am in the 7th.
So I don’t know what he does!!!
So one day he goes to a play for the school,
like a field trip, and this girl named Hannah
was holding his hand and laying up all over him,
and she knew u dated him.
Gah, I hate people like that!!!!
And this girl that was sitting beside him told me on the bus
that he was doing all of that. So I texted him
and told him it was overr!!!
He asked why? I said cause uuu cheated on me with Hannah
uu know that’s pretty dumb!!!
He sai no I didn’t I swear, I said ok, whatever!
Then like a whole month later I hear that he didn’t do it
and Hannah was the one that done it, he jerked back
and didn’t want to. He told her period that he had a girlfriend
and he wouldn’t let go of his hand
so next thing u know, he asked me back out
and promised he wouldn’t talk to her!!
So dec, 17 we got back together
and it was a perfect realationship after that
so make sure not to date a guy that uuu
don’t get to see!!!
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She’s hurt… very hurt. Nothing will ever change that feeling. There is nothing you can do to remove that feeling. Staying together or separated. The best thing to do is talk about it. Make her listen and tell her everything that came about during that three days. Tell her if you slept with the other girl, if you held hands or just talked. Let her decide if she wants to stay with you. You dated someone else while you guys were on break, to her that felt as if you didnt love her anymore… that you had already moved on. If you love her you will respect her decision. Always remember that things that we do and say can never be taken back. She will always remember that you were with someone else. She may even feel that you cheated on her when she needed you the most. And if you do get back together, you will hear about it again. Whenever you upset her or make her sad… she will remember this. Trust me, I’ve been with my boyfriend for 6 years now and things he did still hunts our relationship now and then.
my girlfriend is cheating on me, the sad thing is i love her with all my heart and cant seem to break up with her ive told her and weve talked about it before but then she throws everything back at me, im kind of not thinking this relationship is worth it if im supposed to be happy shes going to “hang out” with all these other guys at their house </3
i have a questionn .. what do you do if your boyfriend that you have had for almost 6 months has been cheating on you, but we have talked about it and i have forgave him over and over when its only hurting myself . he recently is continuing to cheat on me with my BESTFRIEND and i dont have a clue as to what i should do, i really really like him and for some odd reason i think he feels the same. i just dont think he knows how to treat ONE girl right without haveing other girls on the side . now that we fixed that hes lieing to me about getting on skype with another girl and her showing herself to him .. but idk what to do and i dont wanna get hurt again!!!!! HELP mee ?!
Damn, as I’ve been reading all these comments I’ve been wondering if it’s the same guy that cheated on me.lol These stories all seem similar to mine. I was dating this guy for about six months and one day I shockingly found out that he was dating these other two girls from different locations. By the way, I found out on Facebook. Yeah, what a great way to find out, huh? Anyway, so at first he denied it and then came out clean after a while. He begged me to take him back but I also found out that he was begging the other girls too. So it turns out that he got one of them pregnant and asshole denies being a father. I loves this guy more than anything but I am much more happier being alone than living on a lie.
so this new years my boyfriend made out with my best friend. and openly groped her boob. right after telling me he loved me, wanted me to marry him, and shoving my hand down his pants. and i was still in the room. sitting on the bed across from theirs. while my other friend laid there. i knew they had an attraction for eachother, but i guess 6 glasses of chamapgne really brings this out. happy new years everyone!
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I have been with this guy for 4 1/2 years. For the entire four years he had been really kind,caring and everything you could ask for in a guy. I loved him to death. I would have jumped off a cliff for him. But recently I find out that he had cheated me 2 years back. I still remember 2 years ago when I asked him about the last night calls and msges he gets from this particular girl and he replied me saying that the girl was like a sister to him and I was being controlling. Little did I know at that time he was cheating on me till recently i found a sex chat saved in his comp between him and that girl. A girl whom he claimed was like a sister to him. I dont know what to do. He still wants me and he says he loves me. He said the very same things he told me 2 years back and still cheated on me. Its just so hurting to know the person u trust so much has betrayed you and that u dont know who to believe anymore. It sucks. I want to move on so badly but I still love him so much. I have no idea what should I do.
Well, heres my story! Im a sophmore in college and im 19. I have a boyfriend and he goes to the same college as me and we’ve been dating since I was a junior. Hes cheated on me once before he went to panama for spring break one year. And I just found out that he cheated on me with a 17 yr old white girl! I mean like wtf? We’ve been threw anything you can imaginn! And he cheats on me because I made him mad! Then the night before I found out that he did it he told me that he would never sleep with that girl. And that they was just bestfriends and that he cared about me to much to cheat on me. Then I find the next day that he cheated on me! I mean it hurts soo bad guys! Like ive been threw hell and back for him! We’ve made it so far and he decided to screw up now! And when I called him out he said that he didnt do it! Then calls me back 15 mins later saying he is sorry and that he messed up! Ughhh, now he trynna get back with me! And this happen like 2 days ago?! I done beat the girl up and everything! I hate dudesss!
urg!!!!!!i hate wen ppl cheat
Ughhh!! I hate when people cheat!! It just makes me wanna get them help!!
I was in love with this boy and we dated for like 3 years and im 13 now and i found out he was cheating on me for 2 months and i was like seriously???!! and that day i told him it was over i also told three of my best friends it was to because i couldnt be friends because they were the ones dating him!!! i mean isnt that ____ up!!!!
Why do cheaters waste our time??..I’m being cheated on as we speak..err..ummm.I mean text! I have found out everything, but I’m still playing along to see what what she’s willing
and capable of doing…so she can continue cheating..I wanna see how far she’ll go..and how much her disregard for my feelings goes….I really loved her…and believed every word she said to me….especially much she loved me and how id always have her heart…and don’t ever leave her..blah….blahh…blah….this is actually gonna be a very very interesting observation…I’m hurt…but I feel like I have the upper hand…cuz what an idiot she’s gonna feel like when i finally pull her covers….GOD BLESS ALL THE FAITHFUL…SATAN CAN HAVE THE REST !!!!
Well here recently actually on Jan. 14th my husband decides to end our marriage (not even 3 years married,6 together),saying he was too young to marry & he really thinks he missed out on so much (i.e. other women) in all actuality it was the fact there is already another woman. I had confronted him about her after finding a tiny bit of truth but of course he still denies it, eventhough I had said her first & last name. Funny thing is he messed with a 16 yr old girl before we were married but the only thing I had were love notes from her in his wallet that he snatched from my hand and burned, yes burned before I could read more then a few key lines so proof was gone. Anyway he tried to blame everything on me in our marriage when I did everything for him, cooked, cleaned, laundry, practically waited on him hand & foot. Stupid me I loved him so much I even put him completely before myself. To clarify on that I needed some dental work done for a couple years now & there would be something he would want whether is was a new PS3 game or a computer part & yes, I would let him. I could just kick myself sometimes. His whole family thinks he is making a HUGE mistake just leaving all this I do, they thought I was a saint wondering how I could always put with his attitude he had, a few of us really think he is Bi-Polar, but he would never get checked of course cause he was afraid to find out the truth that he is. Anyway he can keep all his secrets & lie right to his whole family’s faces saying there is no one else. It’s bad when you end up falling so hard inlove with someone that you’d give your life for them & they give you this in return…..no respect of any kind & act like you are just the most horrible thing just to make themselves look good to others so they would never think that he is the problem…. the lying, cheating ____, that I have come to realize that my life will be much better without !!
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I found out my bf of 2 yrs cheated! I found out by accident when he started avoiding my calls and also stolemy car. He took a girl to a hotel for a couple days, took money from me pretending it was to do repairs to my vehicle & also left a receipt in the car where he bought the morning after pill during the weekend fling. I got back my car after 4 days & the cops didn’t even track him down with it.
Of course our relationship is now ended, I’m unsure of the girl in question but my main concern was my vehicle. A man of class would never use another lady’s car w/out her permission to take out another female, at least afford your own or organise a rental. God doesn’t give us more than we could bear & good riddance to him. Cheaters are the worse!
Now he’s saying bad things about me but I’m not wasting my time to defend myself, his conscience will take care of him. He was just greedy & not man enough to admit he wanted “variety”. I guess he thought I wouldn’t figure it all out but I did & I’m proud of myself.
I’m looking forward to gr8 things for 2011, thank God I’m rid of that baggage
Sooo im the one that effed up. i cheated on my boyfriend of two years, 4 months ago, 3 times with the same guy. i realize i made a huge mistake. we had plans to move in together, get married, have kids and grow old together. i guess i just lost sight of that… i was lacking things in my relationship and i felt the other guy filled those holes. my guy is impossible to talk to about anything and i went about things the wrong way. i tried to tell him myself so many times but i couldnt do it. He found out the wrong way. this is the first time ive ever cheated and i will never do it again. im having a hard time living with myself knowing i hurt him so bad. its not worth it. dont ever cheat….
Well heres my story. Im 16. I’ve been cheated on twice before this incident.. (just to let everyone know). Anyways, i had been “talking” to this guy, (fake name for the sake he’d find out i’m actually writing this), Adam for 2 months. Ive just simply known him since i was 7. Our familys were good friends too. After those 2 months we decided to date. He was my boyfriend, i swear i thought i was going to marry him. I was SO in love. After about another 3 months he told me for the first time ever, for any guy to say to me, “im in love with you” in person and he looked in my eyes and kissed me. It was the best moment of my life.. or i thought. Later that SAME night, i find out that he had been hooking up with my former best friend FOUR DAYS in a row. I cried so hard.. I called him and he denied it all. He didn’t know i had proof… there were texts sent to my former best friend where he said some things that are inapporiate to put on here. My heart was and is still broken. I feel empty, like im nothing. To top it all off.. today he told me too, “Get out of his life”
okay? will do Adam..i was planning on it anyways when i was the one who broke it off with you.
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i was dating this guy, and his friend texted me saying he caught this girl giving him head on the bus . i asked some people who rode his bus about it and they said that it happens all the time and this wasn’t the first time they got caught . plus, he has been with his ex girlfriend the whole time .. i got on his facebook wall one day and she had uploaded pictures of them kissing, and she posted on his wall saying she loved him while we were dating . it really amazes me how stupid people can get . i broke up with him, and the next day he was dating his ex girlfriend, i told him to have fun cheating on her with his bus buddy .
I’m a 6th grader. Last year I went out with this guy that 1 of my bestfriends went out with for 5 mounths. We went out for 9 mounths the day e broke up with me I found out he had been cheating on me with my best friend. They kissed and everything when he came over andd all 3 of us ttlked and I looked away he wud flirt with her! 2 months later I ended up going back out with him I really wasen’t happy with im so I decided to go to a bon fire with my best friend that had dated him before me. I ended up holding hands with this guy that had a girl friend I didn’t know about and she ended up being a best friend! Me and the guy i was going out with broke up and he went ouut with this ____! He inded up cheating on her with like 3 girls! Now were back togather happyer then ever! Maybe ceating can help your realtionships sometimes
I don’t think cheating was ever the right thing to do thow. I just did it so he cud feel the way i did wen he did the same to me
Yeah all u grown ups say ur a 6th grader you dont know what love is but when u have dated someone for 9 months you know your in love!
Okay so me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 months. I found out a while ago that he’s cheating on me with this girl in Alabama and has been with her for 7 months. he tells me he loves me more and really wants to be with me, but hes always texting her and telling her that he loves her. Then to top it all off she might be coming to the college that we go to( shes a junior in high school) his “plan” is to “Break up” with me, stay with her, then break up with her to be with me again. He says that he’s doing it because he loves me. This hurts me more and more every day and my patience is running out slowly. I really wanna be with him but im geting hurt out of all of this. What should I do?
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Were in georgia by the way. He says that he didnt mean for things to last this long between him and her and the only reason why he hasent broken up with her is because he dosent wanna hurt her
I was dating this guy for last 5 years, He was very loving and kind to me but after 2 years relationship he started ignoring me. I was shocked what happened to him, every little things he try to find my fault and later on I found out that he is having affair with 37 years old lady, who is from Philippines. I gave him many chances and forgave him many times. He promised me that he will never go after that lady because she is 14 years older than him; she is just friend to him. But he was still on cheating me. On this valentine he did not have money to give me gift. He gave me single rose and I was very happy with rose because for me his presence with me was more important than any gift, i was very happy but I did not know that this day would be last day of my relationship.
Next day i was checking my fb and I was checking profile of that Philippines lady, I was shocked, she uploaded some pics of her valentine day, someone gave her bunch of rose’s chocolates, and cute teddy bear. And there was a note tagged with bunch of flowers. my sweetheart, thanks for your patience love and kindness, you are so special to me and i love you a lot, will you be mine valentine? I will love you with all my soul. Yours…? I was shocked it was my bf’s name. I called him and asked him did u deliver that lady flower to Philippines. He accepted it and was not sorry for his mistake, I cried a lot in front of him but he did not bother. It was shocking for me that for me he did not have money to give anything for her he borrowed money from someone. I decided to leave him and i think it was fair decision. I am happy now. He never deserved me.
You ladies (and guys) are all better than any of these people doing this to you. You deserve so much better. Everyone has that special someone out there waiting for them, you just have to go through some bumps along the way. One day, while my roomate was at work, a guy from a town 45 minutes away came in and really liked her. He told her he was a single dad and asked for her number. She had been talking to him, and kept asking when he would come visit. Today, his WIFE wrote me on Facebook asking why I sent pictures of myself to her husband through e-mail. I had no clue what she was talking about, but then remembered that my roommate had sent him a picture of her with my account. I told my roommate about it and then called his wife and explained everything. He sent pictures to my roommate, one being of his ____. He kept saying how he couldn’t wait to be with my roommate and was full of lies. He was going to come see my roommate tonight and told his wife he had to work. Luckily we found out before that could happen. I feel so bad for her, I don’t see how anyone can cheat. It hurts way more than anyone realizes. Keep your heads up, guys <3
I was married to a man for 8yrs when I found out he had been cheating and got another woman pregnant. I let time pass as if I didnt have a clue. Well then our anniversary came up and we had planned on meeting for dinner in the afternoon after work. Well I skipped work and went on a lil trip and seen he was with his mommy-to-be so I drove up to the court house got Divorce Pappers. I did not go straight back to him I went home at the same time as usual (so it was like I was at work) I went took my shower put on my best outfit which wowed him when he seen me. We went to dinner all while I was still playing as the fool. After dinner I told my husbamd I had a present for him. he became so excited but it all went away when I handed him the papers and busted out everything I knew. Now thats an anniversary to remember
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i’m in 10th grade and a guy right and i meet this girl first few day of school and we just had so much in common i had been with this other girl for 2 years last year and year before that and she had cheated on me long story…. so me and this new girl first months are going great but then find out shes been with like 4 guys before me and i kinda get over it because i think i really do love this girl and i don’t think she would cheat on me and i know i would never cheat on her cuz i just love her so much… so we started to get in more and turns out she had the bf she never got over but he lived in the states so turns out almost every night she would for him and they would how do i know this she told me over face book … now i’m thinking i’m doing something wrong seeing how this just keeps happening so i’m planing on going to the states and i still think of this girl every night and its terrible because i thought she was different and i wish i could just meet a girl out there thats like me and would just love me and i could love her and be happy together but with my luck that might as well just be a fantasy ….
Getting hurt !!!!! Yet letting the person go that hurt you _____ even WORSE!!!!! Its this feeling that stops you from eating,being happy, everything because you loved this person so much. My advise, DON’T take them back. There’s plenty more fish in the sea. Don’t waste your time swimming with a shark when all you are is a fish. All it’s gonna do is lead you into it’s mouth then move onto the next victim. Everyone’s going to get their heart broken,just don’t be the fool to let it happen twice…with the same person!
i loved a guy so much.i oly proposed him first dat tym he deinied it heevenadvised menotto lovehim at last he also started to love me……….. then 1 day he came toma house nd kissed me ……….. now he is telling to his frndz dat he doesnt likes mend he loves another girlwhom i jus hate 2 d core……………..am jus hating this moment
I need some advice. Please.
I’m still in highschool, senior year. I’m going to university next year, but quite far away from home. There’s two friends (both the same age, 2 years older than me) I have. Let’s. Call them friends. I have this deal I made to myself. Almost like a challenge.
One of the guy’s was my first love, 4 years ago. We’ve never kissed. So I want to kiss him, before I leave home.
The other, totally different from my first love, I met about five months ago. He’s got the same gf for about four years now, but has cheated on her many times before. I like him. I want to kiss him too before the end of the year.
My first love also has a girlfriend for about 4 months now. But I don’t think he’s cheated on her.
Please, I’m not a ____. The thing is, I’m always the other one. But I have my values. You must know that. My first love was the last bf I had, that’s 4 years ago. I’ve only kissed two other guys since.
Its just something that I feel I need to do.
Help me please?!
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is it ok to get your fiance’s mother to babysit your kids to go out and cheat on you hubby to be??
IS it ok to expect to own all the expensive things and make him work 2 job. because you want so much things. then tell him you cheated on him because he doesn’t have time for you??
Is it alright to black mail your him saying if he tells anyone she cheated on him she will take all the money from the house he paid for and not give him one cent when they sell it??
Is it ok to leave your own kids abandon while you go to another country to be with the other guy??
IS it ok to not feed your own kids nor change there nappies while your on Facebook talking to the other guy or just sleeping all day because you stayed up all night talking to him??
is it ok not to be a mother because you are breaking up with the babies dad??
is it ok to expect him to come home and clean the whole house, wash the kids clothes, during his one hour break between going from his first job to the next. while you just sleep all day and not watch your kids???
Is it ok to to keep the engagement ring that belonged to his mother even tho you are not gettin married any more??
this is all the messed up things that is happening to my brother and his kids!! I can’t believe some mothers can be so heartless. And some woman say men are the worst!!
I was reading this and I thought it might offer something to have the assurance of somone who has been the cheater. That when somone cheats it is always because of them. Never believe that you can drive a man to cheat on you. Like somone else said people cheat because of their own personal insecurities. No matter what is going on in a relationship, nothing justifies cheating. You either work it out or take a break.
I dated this girl a couple of years ago. She was amazing. Beautiful,smart, funny, athletic, honest and loyal to a fault. We were best friends at a really difficult part of my life but we had never had any kind of romantic involvement. She was actually 17 and still a virgin.
When I started getting over the issues I was having, we started dating. And after a month, she wasn’t a virgin anymore and she was completely in love with me and I with her.
Things were great for the first few months. Until my issues started coming up again. I had alot of emotional and self esteem problems which manifested themselves in a drug addiction. On the outside, I was popular, smart, good looking, and I just had a badboy quality that people thought was cool. It looked like I had things under control. None of this helped the feelings I had inside. When I started using again I felt so out of control of myself that I made it my thing to control her ( emotionally). I would do somthing wrong or start a fight and manipulate her to feel guilty. She was so in love with me by that time that she couldn’t even think about leaving me. And don’t get me wrong, I loved her too, more than anything. But I hated myself. I cheated on her constantly. And when I thought I was gonna be found out. I’d tell her about it
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so that if she heard anything I could say I’d already told her about that and that the other “____” was just blowing things out of proportion. The moral of the story is that it was me, it was my issues, my insecurities, that made me do the things I did. I really did love her and most of the time I was sweet and caring and did whatever I could to make her happy. It could have been a great relationship, yet there were alot of times that I was the complete opposite. She stayed with me for al
Ost two years In the end, I was putting her through so much that I, because I loved her so much, convinced her we’d be better off friends
so i have this crazy feeling that my bf is cheating on me… i have his password to his msn and hotmail but he wont give me his facebook or tagged pass. this one girl thats his friend on hotmail put her status as “im so happy im with u” and his comment to her was “:D” i dont no if its just him as her friend respondeing and being happy or him actually being with her… im scared to think that he is with her but i dont want to say anything bout it till i find out more, but we have so many plans of being together and getting married and haveing kids but i dont no whats going to happen if hes really lieing when he says “i love u”
please please help me
I really need help… Me and this guy dated for a while and then we broke up. We’ve been best friends for longer than a year now (not certain on how long lol)But newho. Recently old feelings started comin back and because of this we’ve had intercourse 4-5 times in the past month. Recently I found out he’s been dating this girl named Lacey for 2 months… I want to tell her about him lieing and cheating on her with me… I have proof, text messages from him talking about how good it was or wanting it, ect. and we also exchanged “dirty” pics wth eachother (don’t have) but I’m worried that if I tell her n show her the proof that she won’t believe me and think i’m just making up lies n faking text so i can get him back. I truley don’t want him back because now im wondering if he cheated on me back then… I don’t want her to get hurt by him. I know telling her will hurt her but it’s better if i tell her n she ends it sooner than later. I want to tell her but if she doesn’t believe me n stays with him he will probably just cheat on her with someone else and it’ll be more hurtful to her. I tried to confront him n told him either he tells her or I will n all he said was “I don’t know what your taling about.. so good luck with that” What should I do!
wish to all who cheating to them partner they will not going to feel the quilty and feel it someday, that the people who will love them much, will not going to do the same to them…my crazy man who was cheating on me so many times but i still keep loving him, why i feel this feeling to someone like him?…how many times we tried to forget all about between me and him but, we never succed… “why theres a lady EASY TO GET ?” i have in almost 4years relation with that man…but just in one easy to get girl, all is done… how you love people who hurt you ?,even my self i ask why? after all what he did to me, like cheating all the time with me why i still love him… why, me? and why him ?…i dont know what to do after all… i just want to sleep forever with my past with him, and dont have to wake up anymore…i want to die if we cant be together…. help me!!! what will i do !!!
i had a gf…she cheated on me like hell…
we were best frns b4…
but then i broke up wid her…
she cut her hand,she did wat a lover does 4 me..
then she proposed me…
after some days,she told me dat she never loved me n shes nt my gf..
she just performed a drama…
n nw m in big depression
drop the world-lil wayne ft eminem
good song 4 all broken hearts
soo im going out with this guy for 7 months now and evryhting was going perfect but we had problems like a normal couple but he made me feel things ive never felt with any other guy and ilove him to death. But today my friend tells me that he and this one girl were at a birthday party and they were making out when we were f*cking goin out and shes my friend’s ex. i was like.. wht the f*ck!!! and this happened like last month and nobody f*kin told me but my friend said he was trying to be careful and not break my heart. he told me he was gonna go off on him. but now idk what to do…ilovehim and i wanna be with him but he cheated on me with some b*tch who hates me for no reason and i cant take it any mo. can i plz get some advice?? thx i really need it(: </3
Please leave that guy……nobody is worth you if they cheat on you. Love and Care is one thing to a relationship but Trust and Honesty are also important. So don’t stay with someone who cheats on you or tell you any lies. Anyone who loves the other is not meant to be so.
So don’t take any ___from them !!
Just try to move on.
Yeah I am pretty sure that this is not for guys but yeah anyway i am with all of you girls and to be honest I think cheating is really bad and people that have to cheat is just really pathetic and well I am 16 turning 17 on May 26 and well I have had girls cheat on me and I couldn’t stand it and so until last December when I met the sweetest girl up in Ohio and I live in North Carolina but me and her are going out now and she hates her family so bad that I told her that she can move in with me this summer and she said that she wants to and we also might be getting married this summer and well personally I think cheating is just wrong and that I have never cheated on any girl and I never will cheating is not in my nature
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cheating is a crime
so i have this guy… i love him, but i have this gut feeling that he’s still communicating with his ex-gf… well, i checked out his facebook account(*i know it’s not a good thing) and i found out that they’re still all lovey-dovey and i read this message saying they should meet at this place at this time… i asked him if he still has feelings for her or whether they are still communicating and he said no… i mean wtf? what should i believe?.. what should i do?.. please give me some advice…
am dating this guy that cheat on me twice but me talking to boyz like cheatihg on him and walk with ma ex..is chearing to him and he try to be with to other gurlz and when i knew he told me that he is stupid guy and he loves me ana i left him ana come to him again cause am stupidly n love with him and now ….i thinh that’s something going on and i don’t know what it is so I SUPPOBSE he is CHEATIMG again…mmm dunn know can any one read this and told me waht to do ??….:\
well my bf tells me he loves me but goes around telling every other girl they are sexy cute beautiful and everything and then tells me not to worry about if when i confront him idk what to do he says he loves me but he does have a history with cheating on me what should i do wait things out or end it…. Help?
To Sabrina,
I don’t know how old you are… but I’m 17 and your story is one in the same as mine. Actually, we were just on a break and last night he told me that he hooked up with his ex-girlfriend of fourteen months. He cheated on his ex girlfriend with 8 other girls when they dated… and why would he change for me? We dated for five months and he did the same ____. Seriously, end it before you get in deeper and end up more hurt. It sounds hard but you have to believe that you can do it. Because then you WILL do it.
I have been with my husband for 4 years. We are a month a way from being married for 2 years. We have a 10 month old child, a house, cars, and everything together. I recently stepped out on him. I don’t know what to do to make him give me a second chance. I don’t know what to say to try and start to make things better. He is so hurt. He’s talking to me and were stil in the same house. He just doesn’t know how it can ever be better. How can we ever be happy again. I don’t want to get divorced and neither does he. But we don’t know how to avoid it.
Anyone been through this?
I am dating a guy right now. See I am one of those girls who always gives second chances, well actually more the a second chance. Anyways I have been with over a year now, and he’s cheated on me twice so far. It was about 6 months ago that it was the last time he cheated on me. Turned out he was going for an 25 year old. He said he wouldn’t do that again, but my trust for him was nearly to completely gone. The reason why I took him back, was because I loved him, but now a days things aren’t the same. I have been getting attention for other guys, sweet caring guys. This isn’t the only time I have been cheated on. Life is full of this and no matter how hard you try to get away from it, its nearly impossible. All you got to do is pray that you get a good guy. I know that none of us are getting younger, I am 18, and still wishes some guys will grow up. I hope you have luck finding mister right ! Good Luck !
i just found out the guy who i’ve been giving my love to for the last 3 years dropped me for his ex girlfriend and to make it even worse, i found out through facebook – i’m in pain and cant even begin to comprehend the reason why so i totally agree with all of you, love is hard, especially when it’s trying to give it to someone who in the long run never ever deserved it. I say we need change, LET’S GET MAKEOVERS, NEW JOBS, START NEW HOBBIES whatever, eventually someone will realize how AMAZING WE ARE and will love us more than we ever thought possible
good luck to you all and to me lol
right on!
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i cheated on my girl because i found out i was cheated on but never confront her about it then i felt bad about cheating we broke up and later on after i graduated i meet with her again and ended up falling in the same situation and just gave up and now i live in a world where faintness doesn’t exist so i became a player so now i know i dont love i just crush alot.
iv been with this guy he was madly in love with me.. it took him 4 years to get to me, he changed my world! and after two years of the best relation ever.. he cheated on me with that cheap singer girl!
how i knew? for a month i jst ddnt c him bcz he had to work alot (that’s what he said) and every night people tell me they saw him with that singer! god! he says she’s his best friend since ever until i realize he knows her since 3 months only, i mean she is not even that pretty! and what kills me more is that he still takes me for a jerk and he says ur the only girl i will ever love but he goes out with her everyday! iv been crying for months and m actually sick of this! all guys are easily tempted!
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After one year and a half he told me he can’t have a future with me because his dad found out that i had something with another guy 3 years ago before him, All so sudden untill now i dont know im still so surprised,The part that hurts the most is when he changes one hundred and eighty degrees and acts as if nothing ever happened or existed like he never cared its lonely and it hurts its like ive to climb out of hell to get over this bit by bit and i opened myself up to him and i never did anything wrong and i get this so unexpected its hard and devistating!
i was so in love this guy..even i know we did not mean to be,,,,but he is still in my heart now and forever,,,,,,shyam i would like you to know ur still in my heart now and forever,,i’am still waiting for you…until the times comes you learn to love me back….i love you so much syam….
i love you shyam,,,,,,,,ur are my dreamboy..my life and my everything..i was wish we meet to each other..i love u so much….
I just want to share something. So, I’ve been dating this guy for almost three years and ever since our first year together he’s been flirting with girls but I just ignored it ’cause I’m not really the jealous type. Last year he also secretly flirted with different girls. I don’t know if it’s my fault because I don’t really like checking up my guy’s cellphone messages and emails and such. Anyway, a few months ago, we both got really busy with different things so we didn’t see each other more often. One day we had this petty fight and he decided to break-up with me through facebook. We didn’t talk for 2 weeks then my friends told me that there’s someone else. I asked him about it but he denied it. Days later I asked the girl that my friends were telling me and she said that they started seeing each other just a month after class started. I just can’t believe that I loved a guy like him. He really broke my heart but I’m okay now! I’m now happy being single. Just waiting for the right guy.